The club this weekend… OH MY GOODNESS!!!

So, we got ready for the club on Saturday night. It was short skirt night,  so of course I was willing to put it on.

I had my short skirt, a black thong, high heels, no bra, revealing shirt, my trench coat, and a smile on my face as we walked into the club. I missed actually being there and being accepted for who I am. My boyfriend and I went there with the intentions of playing with the owners… ambitious? Maybe! But, we had already kind of made plans to play. By the way, the owners are HOTT!

Okay, so we go and talk to the female owner who is gorgeous, inside and out…. unfortunately it was her time of the month (we call that shark week). So, my boyfriend wasn’t going to play, but he still encouraged me to go ahead and play, even though that meant he would not be involved at all.

Now, the male owner… he is very nice and fun… oh and did I mention he has a huge cock! His dick also has a huge curve down in it. When my boyfriend and I played with them before, the owner’s dick was painful to take in my smaller pussy.

After I finished 2 drinks I went and found the owner and slipped into an empty room with him… the fun began immediately began. We undressed and I started to suck his dick. I stated that I didn’t get a chance to do that before and his response was something about, oh you poor thing, or something about  you poor deprived girl… it was funny. We talked a lot, well more than I expected. After I sucked his dick, he went down on me for a bit. Then, he rolled a condom on and we started sex. Holy crap he is huge! I tried spreading my thighs further apart, but that didn’t help. I was wet, but it was hurting too. Oh, and he is a kisser and very gentle despite how large he is. So, we switched positions to doggy style. That position is much more tolerable. He slipped out a couple of times so we had to lube it up some. After a few minutes of that he suggested we stand up…. the bed already had 2 wet spots on the sheet. I walked around to the back of the bed and put my hands down flat… he was behind me, leaning against the wall. We started in that position and it felt good… I left a puddle on the floor. About halfway through with that position though, my bladder and urethra were screaming from the pain from the  constant beating.

I had to stop the sex because of the pain becoming overwhelming in my bladder region. Once we stopped, we climbed on the bed and I sucked his dick some more. He didn’t finish as it would have taken him forever with a condom on. So, I sucked him for a few minutes and then he wanted to cuddle… kisses, rubbing, and bodies wrapped together post-coitus. Now, my bladder had needed release for a while now, but I cuddled some. Then, after a few more minutes we got up and got dressed.

He still had a hard on and I feel bad about not giving him a release, but I did try with my mouth. I am not, however, willing to have sex without a condom just to let him reach an orgasm. I think he was okay with how things turned out.

As that was my first time playing seperate, I think it went well. I was really nervous, but relieved, to see my boyfriend once done. It was hard to walk afterward… before leaving the room I made a joke about possibly needing a wheelchair to get around… I could have used one though.

Once I told my boyfriend everything that happened, I felt better. He was fine with it all and was actually aroused by it. But, after I told him, he said he was extremely tired and expressed his feelings of wanting to go home. We packed up and got ready to leave. Making our way out, we said our goodbyes, and we got on the road.

When we got home though, my boyfriend and I had sex. He made me cum and then it was his turn… even though earlier we had sex in the bath and he came in my mouth. It was so nice. I love sex with my boyfriend. It really is perfect to me and for me and my body.

So, a great ending to a great night. Yep, I look forward to many more with my boyfriend.

I am sending out good vibes and wishes to you all!

Last Friday night… translation: about a month ago

Alright, this is about this past Friday night. Finally I’m caught up on weekends. Okay, this party was about 20 minutes down the road. It is so close to where we live.

This party was a bit slower, probably because there were some older people, but everyone was generally nice. The couple hosting is a slightly olderish couple, but still very fit. The man has big bear arms and the woman is petite, but in shape.

We did end up playing some flip cup, and beer pong. We watched as one ofnthe security guys from the club we go to get shit faced, throw up, have his dick out, and ask me to sit on it. As he is fairly attractive, that still did not happen. The owner of the house though, we kissed a little and I rubbed his dick, but still no sex. As me and my boyfriend did not want to stay over we ended up leaving that party and driving home.

We did not go to the club the next night, but we stayed at home and rested.

Another Friday spent swinging!

About 2 Friday’s ago…

We went to another house party. This one was further away than we’ve been yet, and we brought our friend who is in the lifestyle now. We drank, we ate, talked, and played games. We played beer pong and flip cup again for a while. This time, when those games were done quite a lot of us got into the pool naked…

Yes, we went skinny dipping. So, most of us who did get in the pool naked ended up having sex with our partners (me and my boyfriend did, but not enough for either of us to cum, it was a tease)… we also ended up touching a lot of other people that night too. My boyfriend had his balls felt by another sexy lady and I felt her husband’s… we were comparing softness. I ended up sitting on that husband’s dick without penetration, just putting my butt on him to warm him up a little after the pool. My boyfriend was sitting on the couch with the wife hitting on her… but, we did not switch or have sex at that party with anybody other than ourselves, even though others wanted to.

We even left early due to our friend who we took… he lost his wallet, keys,  and phone. He thought he put his stuff on top of our vehicle, but the vehicle that parked next to us was almost identical. So, we ended up walking and searching for his things but we never found it. We packed our things and headed home.

Once we dropped our friend off at his house and drove down the road some… I had pulled my boyfriend’s dick out and was rubbing it… we stopped at the end of that road at the stop sign.

When we got to that stop sign, we bot got out of the vehicle and we had sex. I was facing the vehicle and he got behind me. It felt so good. He made me squirt and flood that part of the road. There was a huge wet spot over the pavement when we finished. Then, we climbed back into the vehicle and drove home. Thinking about it now makes me squirm! Mmm.

Once we got home I know sleep happened. I think this night, despite our friend losing his stuff, was one of the best parties we’ve been to yet!

Now, for the story of this past Friday…

Flogging!

Yes, I was flogged. Yes, I enjoyed it. Being flogged was like an exceptional back scratch. I will be flogged again. My boyfriend sat and watched and occasionally laughed at me. I mean, I did giggle a lot. What can I say? It tickled in some spots. The one who was doing the flogging also laughed at me. I guess I am just a hilarious lady…. when I am naked. A letter opener was also used.

We are staying in tonight, but I do not mind a Saturday at home. Today has been great! Now, for tomorrow… Happy Father’s Day to the most amazing man who is everything in my life… my boyfriend.

I hope you all had a great Friday and a great day today too!

Okay, now for last weekend!!!

FRIDAY NIGHT!!! Wow, that was an awesome night and party!

First off, on Friday before the kids got out of school, I packed overnight bags for both kids. One was going to the other parent, the other to a friend’s. After they left, we got ready to go to a house party. The theme was naughty lingerie and boxer night. I finally decided on an outfit I have never worn before, but it was definitely naughty. It was sheer with sparkles, open spaces at the boobs and vagina that had bows you could untie and pull apart, and the back was almost non-existent, except for a ruffled thong. I paired that with my new black shoes and my naked body.

Once we arrived, the party was going and I wasn’t ready to take my over clothes off just yet. So, we began drinking. We mingled and talked. We flirted, teased, and watched. After a few more drinks, I was ready to reveal my naughty lingerie. Once my clothes came off, the flirting and teasing really began!

I had multiple people touching me and ladies kissing me. Hell, even my boyfriend had 2 ladies pull down his pants out on the porch and start sucking his dick right there. While they were shoving him in their mouths, I went and started fingering and play with them both. A bit after that, me and my boyfriend walked out to the other porch and I proceeded to play with another chick out there. I fingered and rubbed until she squirted everywhere. She flooded the porch and caused a huge puddle. I then, went in because I had to use the bathroom…. I was waiting in line and one of the chicks who was touching and trying to kiss me earlier, came up, grabbed my arm, and knocked my drink all over me and the couch! It was the rest of my cherry red moscato.

After the drink incident, and having my boyfriend help me clean up, we proceeded to continue drinking and mingling. It was so much fun! Eventually though, we were ready to go home and sleep. Once we got to the vehicle and on the road, I noticed just how much alcohol I had consumed…. a lot. Yep, I was drunk.

Well, once we made it home we decided to have sex. I was either going to be sick, fall asleep, or have sex…so we chose the sex. Oh yes, I flooded our sheets and bed. So much that even Saturday night our bed was still wet! While we were having sex and I was squirting, my boyfriend was getting soaked too. When he was going to finish, he came on my stomach. Once, done and he was out of me, he kind of fell back because he started to not feel good. I stayed laying down and didn’t get up to clean off… then, after a bit I woke my boyfriend up to lay the right way on the bed and I rolled over and went back to sleep. We both passed out without cleaning ourselves up. The next day, however, I needed more sleep and had a huge headache, and I was not able to attend my friend’s sex toy party.

When I woke up Saturday, I took my meds, pain reliever, drank some water, and then dozed back off for a bit. I woke up next to my boyfriend telling me that he was going to the store to get stuff for the party. Right, it was our oldest daughter’s birthday! So, I jumped up, got dressed, and went with him to the store.

When we got home from the store, I baked the cake, we set up the stuff outside, and we got ready for people to show up. The cake was delicious. It was pink velvet. The food were the Totino’s pizzas. We had ice cream too! The kids were having so much fun. Even though only one person showed up, out of who she handed invitations to, there were still plenty of kids running around. My brother and his family showed up. My boyfriend’s family and their people and kids showed up… so yep, plenty of kids and people. All that matters is that our daughter had fun, and she did.

After that day and the party was over, we relaxed. It is a food thing we at least relaxed that little bit because the next fews days and week would turn out to be stressful!

Well, now you know what we have been up to… what about you? I hope you all are having a great day and enjoy your weekend!

Sending out warm thoughts and good vibes to you all!

Think for yourself and be your own person.

After another sexual weekend at the club, and playing with a couple we have played with before, I am calm and refreshed. These experiences at the club chip away at my stress. It is not just being able to be myself and not be ashamed of who I am on the inside, it is also being surrounded by like minded people. I ate a delicious pussy this weekend, sucked dick, had sex, and enjoyed all of it! I realize now, that I was meant to be where I spiritually, mentally, and sexually am at today. I am thankful to have my boyfriend who has helped me and continues to uplift me everyday. Sexually, he is the perfect partner for me. He encourages my sexual side, and I only hope that I return the favor! I mean, I was eating a pussy as he was cramming his dick into it… it was so frickin HOTT! Oh my gosh, I am wanting some sex right now… maybe me and my boyfriend can get to that when I get off of work. I love sex, but I am not a slut. I am sexually enlightened. I am sending out good vibes and warm thoughts for you all. I hope that you all have a wonderful week!

I ate some delicious pussy last night!

Oh yes, you read the title correctly! I was licking, flicking, fingering, and sucking on vagina last night. Some friends from the club invited us over for dinner and some fun! We had a couple of beers, we ate spaghetti that they cooked, watched some porn, and then when my boyfriend went to the bathroom for the 2nd time last night, we quickly got up and myself and the couple went into their bedroom. When my boyfriend came out, it was my turn to use the bathroom.

When I got out of the bathroom and back to the bedroom, I went straight for her wet pussy. (This was the same female who squirted into my hand at that house party!) I pulled down her pants and started fingering and licking. My boyfriend helped take off all of my clothes as I was going down on her. I sucked on her clit, licked it rough, fingered hard and fast, and tried to make her squirt. From the angle I was at, it was a bit tiresome for my wrist and fingers. Her boyfriend, however, who was helping finger and rub her took over for a moment. That moment was all it took to get her squirting everywhere. The bed was so wet. After a she came a few more times, my boyfriend came after my pussy with one of our toys. He made me squirt and drip all over her leg, as I was straddling one of her legs. So, with that, the fact that both me and her had squirted, the guys took this chance to undress and hop behind us. My boyfriend was behind me and her boyfriend was behind her. After, some time with our boyfriends giving it to us, we slowed down and stopped.

After, she came back from the bathroom, I rubbed her still wet vagina. I rubbed it slow and soft. It was comfortable and I probably could have fallen asleep with my fingers in her. She said it felt good and relaxing. She could have fallen asleep with my fingers in her too. Her pussy was so warm, soft, and wet it was like a vagina mitten for my fingers.

Also, one thing I noticed and enjoyed immensely, her vagina smells and more than likely tastes like me. It made me less self conscious about my body and pussy. I get really self conscious about my squirting and juices too, but I don’t think that I will anymore as another female is similar. Damn, was she sexy!!

As that was our first time at their house, we will be more comfortable from now on when we visit. And, the more we visit and play with them, the more we become closer to swapping with them. I love to experience all of these adventures with my boyfriend. He is amazing and makes me feel like I am the most amazing woman. I would not be where I am today if it were not for him. The last few times we have played and had fun in the lifestyle, I feel that it has definitely brought us closer together. We get stronger as a couple with each obstacle, experience, and each passing day. There is nothing that I would not do for him and his happiness.

Sex, within the lifestyle, is just that, sex… and fun! Not one thing that we do with these other couples and ladies can even compare to the emotions and feelings that occur between me and my boyfriend when we make love.

Do others not have that strong of a bond that something as small as sex can rip them apart? I mean, humans are sexual by nature, others hide and shy away from their natural selves just to fit in with society. Never have I understood that and I never will. Being with my boyfriend has made me realize just how sexual I, and humans, really are. I may have sex and play with others, but my boyfriend has my heart. It is the same for him. When we engage in the lifestyle and play, it is consensual between me and my boyfriend. One of the reasons other relationships fail when it comes to having sex with other people outside of the relationship, in my opinion, would probably be more about the lying and deceit rather than the sex itself. If my boyfriend wants to play, then he talks to me about it, instead of sneaking behind my back. We involve each other and keep our communication open.

The world would be a better place if humans accepted all of our animal like traits and stopped trying to repress all of our differences and what makes us who we are.

Okay, so I started this blog off with sex and fun, and then ended with my thoughts on the human race. Anyway, I hope that you all enjoyed and again, if you have any comments or questions, please feel free to do so.

Also, I hope to be able to provide further details about my sexual adventures and experiences in the lifestyle… until then, live free.

Sweet Success…

Last night was so much fun. We ate dinner, talked, laughed, and joked. After dinner we went over to their place to hang out for a bit and drink a couple of beers. I kept staring at the sexy boobs that the sexy lady had. They were nice to look at! Right before we were about to leave, my boyfriend pulls my tit out. Now, we are on our way out of the door because it had gotten late enough and we had almost an hour drive back home… and he pulls it out! She asked, after he pulled it out if she could… taste it. Oh yes, she put her mouth on my nipple and licked. It was such a turn on. I wanted to nibble, lick, and suck on her, but I didn’t because we were headed out the door. I told him that next time, he should pull them out sooner. It’s either that or I just go ahead and return the favor and a bit more! She is very sexy and has a great personality to match. I know I said I was nervous about it, but I relaxed fairly quickly once we got to the restaurant. They were very laid back and easy to get along with. I am looking forward to the next time we get to hang out. So, in conclusion… YES, the date was successful!

We won 2nd place!

So, in the halloween costume contest we took 2nd place! We had a ton of people say we should have won 1st though. That’s okay, we still won a year’s membership to a website for the lifestyle and a 6 pack! Free beer is plenty for me! We had so much fun last night. It was a BLAST! That was one of the top nights we’ve had there. I will post a picture when I’ve got the time to upload the pics.

Oh and on top of so much fun, the bed was more than soaked! I was orgasming and squirting up a storm. It was amazing. It always is with my boyfriend. Also, I kept my shoes on and my boyfriend gave me dp with a toy while he was in my wet, soaking pussy.

Well, I hope that you all had a wonderful weekend and that your week goes great!