How nerdy do you want to go?

This is the question I proposed to my boyfriend this morning about our Halloween costumes this year. Sure we were nerdy the past couple of years. 2 years ago we went as The Mad Hatter (in black and white) and Harley Quinn. Our costumes matched and looked really good together. We took 2nd place at a costume party, even though we probably should have won. Last year we wore matching steampunk costumes. We even had the awesome homemade accessories to go with it.

Now, we have had the privilege of taking all of the kids these past few years together. This coming Halloween is the first one in 3 years that we will not have them all to take trick-or-treating. We will only have my son to take. Hopefully, he does not get depressed and sad about this and tries to have a good time. He misses the other kids when they are not around.

Also, I hope my son doesn’t get embarrassed by his parents who wants to wear their costumes to go trick-or-treating with him. This year, I think that we may go more nerdy than we have in the past. I am sure that most of you are thinking that we were already nerdy with our previous choices… well, we can and will go even more nerdy!

I am open to suggestions for costumes for this year. Just leave your suggestions in the comments.

I am sending out good vibes and warm wishes for you all.

The club this weekend… OH MY GOODNESS!!!

So, we got ready for the club on Saturday night. It was short skirt night,  so of course I was willing to put it on.

I had my short skirt, a black thong, high heels, no bra, revealing shirt, my trench coat, and a smile on my face as we walked into the club. I missed actually being there and being accepted for who I am. My boyfriend and I went there with the intentions of playing with the owners… ambitious? Maybe! But, we had already kind of made plans to play. By the way, the owners are HOTT!

Okay, so we go and talk to the female owner who is gorgeous, inside and out…. unfortunately it was her time of the month (we call that shark week). So, my boyfriend wasn’t going to play, but he still encouraged me to go ahead and play, even though that meant he would not be involved at all.

Now, the male owner… he is very nice and fun… oh and did I mention he has a huge cock! His dick also has a huge curve down in it. When my boyfriend and I played with them before, the owner’s dick was painful to take in my smaller pussy.

After I finished 2 drinks I went and found the owner and slipped into an empty room with him… the fun began immediately began. We undressed and I started to suck his dick. I stated that I didn’t get a chance to do that before and his response was something about, oh you poor thing, or something about  you poor deprived girl… it was funny. We talked a lot, well more than I expected. After I sucked his dick, he went down on me for a bit. Then, he rolled a condom on and we started sex. Holy crap he is huge! I tried spreading my thighs further apart, but that didn’t help. I was wet, but it was hurting too. Oh, and he is a kisser and very gentle despite how large he is. So, we switched positions to doggy style. That position is much more tolerable. He slipped out a couple of times so we had to lube it up some. After a few minutes of that he suggested we stand up…. the bed already had 2 wet spots on the sheet. I walked around to the back of the bed and put my hands down flat… he was behind me, leaning against the wall. We started in that position and it felt good… I left a puddle on the floor. About halfway through with that position though, my bladder and urethra were screaming from the pain from the  constant beating.

I had to stop the sex because of the pain becoming overwhelming in my bladder region. Once we stopped, we climbed on the bed and I sucked his dick some more. He didn’t finish as it would have taken him forever with a condom on. So, I sucked him for a few minutes and then he wanted to cuddle… kisses, rubbing, and bodies wrapped together post-coitus. Now, my bladder had needed release for a while now, but I cuddled some. Then, after a few more minutes we got up and got dressed.

He still had a hard on and I feel bad about not giving him a release, but I did try with my mouth. I am not, however, willing to have sex without a condom just to let him reach an orgasm. I think he was okay with how things turned out.

As that was my first time playing seperate, I think it went well. I was really nervous, but relieved, to see my boyfriend once done. It was hard to walk afterward… before leaving the room I made a joke about possibly needing a wheelchair to get around… I could have used one though.

Once I told my boyfriend everything that happened, I felt better. He was fine with it all and was actually aroused by it. But, after I told him, he said he was extremely tired and expressed his feelings of wanting to go home. We packed up and got ready to leave. Making our way out, we said our goodbyes, and we got on the road.

When we got home though, my boyfriend and I had sex. He made me cum and then it was his turn… even though earlier we had sex in the bath and he came in my mouth. It was so nice. I love sex with my boyfriend. It really is perfect to me and for me and my body.

So, a great ending to a great night. Yep, I look forward to many more with my boyfriend.

I am sending out good vibes and wishes to you all!

Rainbow Swinger’s Party

Last weekend we had our very first swinger’s lifestyle party. Yep, we did. And yes, it was rainbow themed. Everything was rainbows. We had everyone who came take a can of spray paint and sign a plastic sheet we had hanging outside. We also played a dice game with rainbow markers… a sexual act was tied to whatever number you rolles and once done, you had to sign the body with the marker.

We drank, had sexual acts going on, and had fun. I sucked a dick that wasn’t my boyfriend’s, I got licked by multiple people, I got spanked, my boyfriend went to bed early, and we had a lot of nudity in our hot tub. It was fun and I think everyone else had fun too!!!

Now, tonight we go to the club and I have to get ready…

Another Friday spent swinging!

About 2 Friday’s ago…

We went to another house party. This one was further away than we’ve been yet, and we brought our friend who is in the lifestyle now. We drank, we ate, talked, and played games. We played beer pong and flip cup again for a while. This time, when those games were done quite a lot of us got into the pool naked…

Yes, we went skinny dipping. So, most of us who did get in the pool naked ended up having sex with our partners (me and my boyfriend did, but not enough for either of us to cum, it was a tease)… we also ended up touching a lot of other people that night too. My boyfriend had his balls felt by another sexy lady and I felt her husband’s… we were comparing softness. I ended up sitting on that husband’s dick without penetration, just putting my butt on him to warm him up a little after the pool. My boyfriend was sitting on the couch with the wife hitting on her… but, we did not switch or have sex at that party with anybody other than ourselves, even though others wanted to.

We even left early due to our friend who we took… he lost his wallet, keys,  and phone. He thought he put his stuff on top of our vehicle, but the vehicle that parked next to us was almost identical. So, we ended up walking and searching for his things but we never found it. We packed our things and headed home.

Once we dropped our friend off at his house and drove down the road some… I had pulled my boyfriend’s dick out and was rubbing it… we stopped at the end of that road at the stop sign.

When we got to that stop sign, we bot got out of the vehicle and we had sex. I was facing the vehicle and he got behind me. It felt so good. He made me squirt and flood that part of the road. There was a huge wet spot over the pavement when we finished. Then, we climbed back into the vehicle and drove home. Thinking about it now makes me squirm! Mmm.

Once we got home I know sleep happened. I think this night, despite our friend losing his stuff, was one of the best parties we’ve been to yet!

Now, for the story of this past Friday…

Today is another day

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My breakfast and lunch on my birthday. It is just like every other day and I will treat it as such.

Also, since I had my IUD taken out, having my cervix measured, samples of my cervix taken, and having my IUD replaced, my doctor said no sex for 2 weeks. So no, I don’t even get birthday sex.

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I wish I could get nerdy with it…. I would like some birthday sex, but I can’t. Granted, I did lick and get licked back by a chick on Friday night… but to me, that doesn’t count. Also, it made me just want my boyfriend in me even more! I know it could cause extreme pain and a possible infection, but I want my boyfriend for my birthday…. even if it is just for a moment.

Oh well… today is a regular day and my week shall be the same as every other.

I am sending out good vibes and warm wishes to you all!

4 procedures

4 procedures and that was just on my uterus today… I also had a regular pap. Oww! I hurt. At least my boyfriend was with me at the hospital earlier. Once we got home I tried to lay down for a bit to try and feel better. Nope, I still hurt. On top of that my boyfriend’s boss is an idiot. I am home, hurting, with the kids, and all without my boyfriend. Ugh… his boss and his job is why we will never be able to have any vacation time or take time off. I bet even if I was in the hospital for surgery or having a baby, or something, he would have to go to work. He couldn’t tell his boss he took me to the hospital, so he said that he was in court… his boss has still been messaging and calling, telling him he needs to come in. My boyfriend does his job above and beyond his job description. In December he had to take a paid vacation or he would lose it, his boss made him work a couple of days anyway…. then tried to tell him he would owe him. Yeah right, not gonna happen. My boyfriend works almost 7 days a week straight due to his idiot boss. Most of the time he gets called in because the employees and his boss don’t know how to flip switches, clean their equipment properly, or something stupid…. even when it is in the other’s job descriptions. (Like they call for a leak and he shows up, but when he checks it they may have not turned the faucet off all the way…. seriously stupid shit like this.)…. all the time he gets called in for stupid shit! Drives me crazy!

Oh well, I guess I am going to attempt laundry and try to feel better. I am having the kids do dishes, I will do laundry, and maybe I will straighten some other parts of the house too… I don’t care how strenuous it is, things need to get done.

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Oh by the way, they said 2 weeks NO INTERCOURSE! Ugh… I guess my boobs and mouth will get a lot of use and he will just have to owe me when that time frame is up… lol!

I am sending out good vibes and warm wishes to you all!

Flogging!

Yes, I was flogged. Yes, I enjoyed it. Being flogged was like an exceptional back scratch. I will be flogged again. My boyfriend sat and watched and occasionally laughed at me. I mean, I did giggle a lot. What can I say? It tickled in some spots. The one who was doing the flogging also laughed at me. I guess I am just a hilarious lady…. when I am naked. A letter opener was also used.

We are staying in tonight, but I do not mind a Saturday at home. Today has been great! Now, for tomorrow… Happy Father’s Day to the most amazing man who is everything in my life… my boyfriend.

I hope you all had a great Friday and a great day today too!