Rainbow Swinger’s Party

Last weekend we had our very first swinger’s lifestyle party. Yep, we did. And yes, it was rainbow themed. Everything was rainbows. We had everyone who came take a can of spray paint and sign a plastic sheet we had hanging outside. We also played a dice game with rainbow markers… a sexual act was tied to whatever number you rolles and once done, you had to sign the body with the marker.

We drank, had sexual acts going on, and had fun. I sucked a dick that wasn’t my boyfriend’s, I got licked by multiple people, I got spanked, my boyfriend went to bed early, and we had a lot of nudity in our hot tub. It was fun and I think everyone else had fun too!!!

Now, tonight we go to the club and I have to get ready…

Last Friday night… translation: about a month ago

Alright, this is about this past Friday night. Finally I’m caught up on weekends. Okay, this party was about 20 minutes down the road. It is so close to where we live.

This party was a bit slower, probably because there were some older people, but everyone was generally nice. The couple hosting is a slightly olderish couple, but still very fit. The man has big bear arms and the woman is petite, but in shape.

We did end up playing some flip cup, and beer pong. We watched as one ofnthe security guys from the club we go to get shit faced, throw up, have his dick out, and ask me to sit on it. As he is fairly attractive, that still did not happen. The owner of the house though, we kissed a little and I rubbed his dick, but still no sex. As me and my boyfriend did not want to stay over we ended up leaving that party and driving home.

We did not go to the club the next night, but we stayed at home and rested.

Another Friday spent swinging!

About 2 Friday’s ago…

We went to another house party. This one was further away than we’ve been yet, and we brought our friend who is in the lifestyle now. We drank, we ate, talked, and played games. We played beer pong and flip cup again for a while. This time, when those games were done quite a lot of us got into the pool naked…

Yes, we went skinny dipping. So, most of us who did get in the pool naked ended up having sex with our partners (me and my boyfriend did, but not enough for either of us to cum, it was a tease)… we also ended up touching a lot of other people that night too. My boyfriend had his balls felt by another sexy lady and I felt her husband’s… we were comparing softness. I ended up sitting on that husband’s dick without penetration, just putting my butt on him to warm him up a little after the pool. My boyfriend was sitting on the couch with the wife hitting on her… but, we did not switch or have sex at that party with anybody other than ourselves, even though others wanted to.

We even left early due to our friend who we took… he lost his wallet, keys,  and phone. He thought he put his stuff on top of our vehicle, but the vehicle that parked next to us was almost identical. So, we ended up walking and searching for his things but we never found it. We packed our things and headed home.

Once we dropped our friend off at his house and drove down the road some… I had pulled my boyfriend’s dick out and was rubbing it… we stopped at the end of that road at the stop sign.

When we got to that stop sign, we bot got out of the vehicle and we had sex. I was facing the vehicle and he got behind me. It felt so good. He made me squirt and flood that part of the road. There was a huge wet spot over the pavement when we finished. Then, we climbed back into the vehicle and drove home. Thinking about it now makes me squirm! Mmm.

Once we got home I know sleep happened. I think this night, despite our friend losing his stuff, was one of the best parties we’ve been to yet!

Now, for the story of this past Friday…

Today is another day

My breakfast and lunch on my birthday. It is just like every other day and I will treat it as such.

Also, since I had my IUD taken out, having my cervix measured, samples of my cervix taken, and having my IUD replaced, my doctor said no sex for 2 weeks. So no, I don’t even get birthday sex.

I wish I could get nerdy with it…. I would like some birthday sex, but I can’t. Granted, I did lick and get licked back by a chick on Friday night… but to me, that doesn’t count. Also, it made me just want my boyfriend in me even more! I know it could cause extreme pain and a possible infection, but I want my boyfriend for my birthday…. even if it is just for a moment.

Oh well… today is a regular day and my week shall be the same as every other.

I am sending out good vibes and warm wishes to you all!

Flogging!

Yes, I was flogged. Yes, I enjoyed it. Being flogged was like an exceptional back scratch. I will be flogged again. My boyfriend sat and watched and occasionally laughed at me. I mean, I did giggle a lot. What can I say? It tickled in some spots. The one who was doing the flogging also laughed at me. I guess I am just a hilarious lady…. when I am naked. A letter opener was also used.

We are staying in tonight, but I do not mind a Saturday at home. Today has been great! Now, for tomorrow… Happy Father’s Day to the most amazing man who is everything in my life… my boyfriend.

I hope you all had a great Friday and a great day today too!

Umm, yeah, that happened…

On Sunday, I went and dropped my boyfriend off at an airport for his business trip. There was a lot of driving involved, on top of being tired from not getting enough sleep the night before. And then, once I dropped him off I was having a hard time keeping myself from blubbering, but I made it home safely. Then, once I got home… things got crazy…

(Since my boyfriend and I have been attending the club, we have become friends with some very different people. One of these friends is a bisexual man who likes to dress up in ladies clothing.)… just a little background info.

Okay, so on Sunday once I got home, I fed our kids, showered, packed lingerie and sexy outfits, packed makeup, packed some wine and beer, and then hit the road for some “girly” fun.

I was going to hang out with this guy who enjoys wearing ladies clothing. My boyfriend encouraged me to go, and I wanted to get my mind off of being alone while he is gone. Had I stayed home I would have went to bed and probably cried myself to sleep. Going to hangout seemed a better option.

I did not know what to expect. All he had said was that he wanted to take some new pictures, that I should bring some makeup, and I need to bring sexy clothes. I packed almost all of my lingerie and sexy outfits, as well as all of my makeup. Once I arrived…. the night began!

I pulled up and guy him came out to greet me and help carry in what I brought. Once inside, we showed our outfits and talked makeup. He also informed me that we were going to make boobs for him… we were to make them out of old panty hose and rice! But, first I was to do his makeup.

This was the first time that I put makeup on anyone other than myself, our kids, or my younger brother when we were little. My friend wanted a smoky eye, foundation covering his whole face, and basically whatever else I wanted to do…. So, I mixed some foundation to get the correct color and started to apply it. Then, I powdered his face. I applied some of my favorite eye liners and eye shadows to his eyelids, but I let him put on his mascara. After his eyes were done, I applied a little shimmering blush, and then some lipstick. He looked good.

Once his face and the rice boobs were finished, it was time for him to get into some outfits and take some new pictures.

I, also, did not know what expect from this part of the night. I picked out an outfit and he put it on. He even put on my underwear that I brought. (When I agreed to go and hang with him, I just thought what I was bringing was for me to put on and that we would take pictures, and he would wear his own outfits and I would take pictures of just him too….. I assumed too much!)

Once he got dressed and put a wig on, he put some tranny porn on the tv, and then pulled his dick out of the side of the underwear and played with it. I started snapping photo after photo, and he continued to play with his dick as he moved into different poses and positions. He said he wanted to have a hard dick for some pictures. After a few different outfits, he said, while jerking off, that he’d also like for me to see if I could take pictures of him ejaculating….

Now, I have no problem with nudity or sexual behavior. As long as it doesn’t involve blood, too much pain, poop, and or urine. But, I did not expect this situation. Then, after a bit of trying to accomplish an orgasm, he asked for my help…

I Do Not play without my boyfriend. I repeat, I DO NOT PLAY WITHOUT MY BOYFRIEND…. I had established this earlier with him. BUT, that is not what he meant when he asked. He wanted me to put on some of his sheer nylons because he has a thing for them. WHEW!!! I thought it was going to get uncomfortable.

After his request, I obliged and put the nylons on. He started to stare at the nylons and then back to the porn on the screen…  during all of this I was still snapping pictures. He had frequently stated that he had not played with himself like that in front of anyone before, and I could believe that. He seemed nervous a lot of the time and kept his eyes closed for most of it. After a bit more time, he had asked if he could touch the nylons… I had no qualms about this so I, once again, obliged. I put my foot on the couch next to where he was sitting and he started to touch my foot. It was almost as if he was petting the nylons. As I kept snapping photos, I began to rub my foot on his leg and he kept petting part of my shin. As time went on, eventually he stopped and stated that nothing was going to happen. So, I stopped taking pictures and checked my phone.

When I checked my phone, it was after 12 and I had to be up in the morning to get the kids off to school and go to work. So, I started to pack my stuff and collect my belongings.

Now, time to dish on a conversation from earlier during the night… While I was applying his makeup we chatted about sex, anal, and toys. During this conversation I expressed how my boyfriend encourages me and my sexual side, and of how I kind of lived under a rock until him. My boyfriend introduced me to an app for my phone that has dirty sex stories you can read. .  Well, as I was talking I mentioned this one story where a chick went on a date with another chick… or so she thought. Well, during the course of the story, the one chick put on a strap-on and mounted the other chick who still had a dick. So, long story short, I mentioned that I kind of wanted to try that, putting on a strap-on and giving it to somebody. Not thinking about what had just come out of my mouth, he just looked at me and proceeded to ask something I had never been asked before… He asked me if I would do that to him… UMM HUH??… my only response was that you never know what could happen.

Umm, even though I had that thought, I have no idea if I could actually bring myself to go through with it. After, I responded I asked if they actually make strap-ons with double side that way the wearer could get enjoyment out of it as well. He informed me that they do exist.

Well, after I got back into my vehicle and was ready to head out, my boyfriend called me. I explained what all took place that night, well I tried to anyway. Our conversation was cut off by my gps, I was unable to hear him a lot of the time and had to get him to repeat almost everything he said, and I was trying to concentrate on my driving. So, eventually, we said goodnight and got off the phone.

The next day, however, I sent what all happened as well as telling about how our friend had asked me to strap it on and give it to him… Yep, my boyfriend was just as surprised as I was about that request. Honestly, I had no idea what my boyfriend would say in response to that. Well, his response came back and it was almost just as interesting. My boyfriend said he’d probably be okay with it if he was there and could take pictures.

My boyfriend is amazing and I am so very lucky to have him. As far as the request from a friend and the response from my boyfriend, I still don’t know if I could go through with it. I think that I should think about it more and talk to my boyfriend some more as well.

One last thing… YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN.

I think…

I think that I am going to put up a few more pictures… after this weekend that is. SO, what kind of pictures do you guys want to see??? Let me know and I will see what I can do.

Another weekend on the horizon… well, duh, time doesn’t stand still…

Yep, after work tomorrow we will start another weekend. And, this up and coming weekend is full of plans. I have to shave tonight because I will not have time to do so after work tomorrow. Then, we have a house party to attend tomorrow night. Then, we have to leave the party early so my boyfriend can attend a pre-release for MTG (Magic The Gathering). Saturday, I am not quite sure what our day plans are, but that night we are going to the club. Also, we are taking a single male friend with us to the club. We are not taking him for our use, but taking him because he really wants to go. Then, on Sunday I get to drive my boyfriend to the airport. He is flying to NY for work training. That drive is around 3 hours and then, I get to drive back home… hopefully, I will be able to have a riding companion. I do not want to fall asleep on the way back. Once I get back, I will be lonely.

The start of the new work week will begin the following day before 7 am. Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday are going to be ssdd… but, then after work on Wednesday I will drive another 3 hours to go pick my boyfriend back up from the airport. I am going to have to either switch Thursday with the teenager or just not go in at all.

Also, a few things… I went to the specialist for my IC and I have revised my plan for my medications. I am going to be tapering off of most of my medications, which is great, but then I am also going to be giving myself another catheter too. So, I will be taking less medication, but adding another catheter. I hope that this works out for my body. I do not like taking medications like this. Hopefully, I will be free of almost all pill medicines in about 2 months.

And, on another subject, both of our oldest kids are going on field trips next week! Our oldest son gets to go to the zoo and our oldest daughter gets to go watch a play at the local high school.

I have one more thing…. I love music. I dig all flavors and styles of music, it just depends on what mood I am in. I, however, do not like songs in where the words are repeated over and over with nothing new to say. I listen to it, but that does not mean that I have to like it. Yes, I understand that most singers get more play on the radio with a catchy hook or chorus, but it does not need to be all that comprises a song. And, it has started to get on my nerves hearing singers not properly articulate their words. Such as, “don’t cha”, or when a singer is supposed to say “you” but says “choo” instead.

Ugh, no wonder our future generation’s speech and language skills have dropped. If their role models can not speak properly then, how can we expect the generation to do so? They don’t even teach cursive writing in school anymore. Everybody is abbreviating their words and this is becoming acceptable today. And, electronics today… they take precedence over books and written language. I think that everyone should take courses to refresh their language skills, vocabulary, and even writing skills.

Okay, well… I hope that you all have a wonderful day. I am sending out warm wishes and good vibes to you all.

Okay, now for last weekend!!!

FRIDAY NIGHT!!! Wow, that was an awesome night and party!

First off, on Friday before the kids got out of school, I packed overnight bags for both kids. One was going to the other parent, the other to a friend’s. After they left, we got ready to go to a house party. The theme was naughty lingerie and boxer night. I finally decided on an outfit I have never worn before, but it was definitely naughty. It was sheer with sparkles, open spaces at the boobs and vagina that had bows you could untie and pull apart, and the back was almost non-existent, except for a ruffled thong. I paired that with my new black shoes and my naked body.

Once we arrived, the party was going and I wasn’t ready to take my over clothes off just yet. So, we began drinking. We mingled and talked. We flirted, teased, and watched. After a few more drinks, I was ready to reveal my naughty lingerie. Once my clothes came off, the flirting and teasing really began!

I had multiple people touching me and ladies kissing me. Hell, even my boyfriend had 2 ladies pull down his pants out on the porch and start sucking his dick right there. While they were shoving him in their mouths, I went and started fingering and play with them both. A bit after that, me and my boyfriend walked out to the other porch and I proceeded to play with another chick out there. I fingered and rubbed until she squirted everywhere. She flooded the porch and caused a huge puddle. I then, went in because I had to use the bathroom…. I was waiting in line and one of the chicks who was touching and trying to kiss me earlier, came up, grabbed my arm, and knocked my drink all over me and the couch! It was the rest of my cherry red moscato.

After the drink incident, and having my boyfriend help me clean up, we proceeded to continue drinking and mingling. It was so much fun! Eventually though, we were ready to go home and sleep. Once we got to the vehicle and on the road, I noticed just how much alcohol I had consumed…. a lot. Yep, I was drunk.

Well, once we made it home we decided to have sex. I was either going to be sick, fall asleep, or have sex…so we chose the sex. Oh yes, I flooded our sheets and bed. So much that even Saturday night our bed was still wet! While we were having sex and I was squirting, my boyfriend was getting soaked too. When he was going to finish, he came on my stomach. Once, done and he was out of me, he kind of fell back because he started to not feel good. I stayed laying down and didn’t get up to clean off… then, after a bit I woke my boyfriend up to lay the right way on the bed and I rolled over and went back to sleep. We both passed out without cleaning ourselves up. The next day, however, I needed more sleep and had a huge headache, and I was not able to attend my friend’s sex toy party.

When I woke up Saturday, I took my meds, pain reliever, drank some water, and then dozed back off for a bit. I woke up next to my boyfriend telling me that he was going to the store to get stuff for the party. Right, it was our oldest daughter’s birthday! So, I jumped up, got dressed, and went with him to the store.

When we got home from the store, I baked the cake, we set up the stuff outside, and we got ready for people to show up. The cake was delicious. It was pink velvet. The food were the Totino’s pizzas. We had ice cream too! The kids were having so much fun. Even though only one person showed up, out of who she handed invitations to, there were still plenty of kids running around. My brother and his family showed up. My boyfriend’s family and their people and kids showed up… so yep, plenty of kids and people. All that matters is that our daughter had fun, and she did.

After that day and the party was over, we relaxed. It is a food thing we at least relaxed that little bit because the next fews days and week would turn out to be stressful!

Well, now you know what we have been up to… what about you? I hope you all are having a great day and enjoy your weekend!

Sending out warm thoughts and good vibes to you all!

What a frickin week!

Let me start off by saying, this was supposed to be spring break for the kids, and my boyfriend had this week of as well. Okay, now I can tell you what all has happened…

It all started on Sunday night. On Sunday night, I was heading to bed, and the kids were able to stay awake a bit longer. We also had our other 2 boys over. So, with 4 kids in the house and my boyfriend playing D&D with his friends, our house was kind of full. I was laying down for a bit over 10 minutes when I was informed by my boyfriend that our oldest was sick.

Starting out with our daughter throwing up and having diarrhea at the same time, my night was sure to be interesting… oh how right that statement became. She soiled blanket after blanket, underwear, her clothes, my clothes, and sheets. Then, our oldest boy started to throw up.

Now, this was getting horrible! With 2 sick kids, the fact that I still had work in the am, and my boyfriend had company over and was on vacation…. I was just hoping that I didn’t get sick.

So, our son was only vomiting. But, he was throwing up so much that eventually it was just bile and stomach acid. The whole time he is sick, I was having to carry our daughter to the bathroom and place her in the tub. She could not even walk, it had gotten so bad. Then, it started nearing, I guess, around 5 when our next to oldest son threw up and had diarrhea too.

3 out of 4 kids were sick. I automatically had him strip out of clothes, down to his underwear, and sleep on the floor with his blanket and pillow. Now, once the first boy got sick, and between me taking care of everything, I taped plastic bags to our daughter’s bed. I, also, had her strip to her underwear, and I had our oldest boy in a sitting up position to sleep.

I took care of our sick kids until well after the sunrise Monday morning. Our daughter’s sickness started easing off around 7, our next to oldest son only had that one episode, and the last time our oldest son threw up it was around 9:30 Monday morning. At around 7am when my alarm went off, I went ahead and called out of work. I still had sick kids and they needed to be taken care of.

I finally got sleep after 9:30ish and only slept a total of about an hour. I was exhausted when that day was over. When Tuesday morning rolled around I got up and went to work. I still didn’t sleep much Monday night, but I couldn’t miss another day of work. After I got home on Tuesday, my boyfriend had to leave and go do work, even though he’s on vacation. While he was gone, I was still doing laundry, and cleaning, I started to feel bad…

While trying to put clean bedding on our daughter’s bed, I had to run to the bathroom. Yep, I was sick… and so, it began. The horrible pain associated with whatever stomach bug this was, was the worst pain ever. Once I started,  I went ahead and told my boss that if it didn’t subside then I wasn’t going to be able to make it in on Wednesday. And, I am glad I did that earlier because it didn’t subside. I was in bed by 7 pm Tuesday night. I was freezing at first so I got in the shower and sat under the water, washed myself, and warmed up.  Around midnight I took pain meds and my muscle relaxer to ease the pain. I stayed in bed until after lunch on Wednesday. I was still in pain and running to the bathroom every so often. My lower half was inflamed and hurting to the touch, due to all of the bathroom time. At least the pain meds and muscle relaxer helped. Wednesday night was a bit better, for everything. On Thursday morning I got up around 9:30ish and showered, shaved, and then went to work by 11. (Me and the teenager switched a few hours because she had her rehearsal dinner and impending wedding on Friday to get ready for… as well as her honeymoon cruise…she will not be in again until the 28th.)

I worked Thursday until 5. Once I was off of work I drove home, rinsed off, and then proceeded with getting ready. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that on Monday we had to cancel our dinner and dessert plans with our friends… so our “rain check” was rescheduled for Thursday night. Yep, after getting ready we headed to see our friends. I was feeling so much better and when we got there we had fun! Yes, lady play and wetness were a ton of fun!

So, last night after we got home, we went to bed and slept. My alarm went off this morning and I prepared to be at work until 5! Yep, a full day of work for me today. When I get home I will be with the kids… by myself tonight, once my boyfriend leaves for the game/card/hobby shop. Then, when he gets done there, he and his friends will come back home.

Tomorrow, Saturday we shall get up and spend time with our kids. I am also hoping that he will ink me tomorrow, hopefully anyway. Then, tomorrow night, after dinner, and after we take our youngest daughter back to her grandmother, we will be getting ready to attend the club! Yes, the club! Tomorrow is pirate themed. I get to wear my pirate wench outfit again! I am excited about it. We have not been to the club in over a month.

Oh my, I forgot to tell you all about last weekend and Friday! I guess another post is on the way!