Well, that is not going to happen.

It is my birthday in a couple of days and I have not and will not be able to find a chick for a threesome. So much for trying to surprise my boyfriend for my birthday. Oh well, I guess I should have known. Maybe another time? Wish me luck.

What happens in a few weeks?

My birthday is in a few weeks. What am I going to do for my birthday? The same thing I do everyday. Last year my boyfriend cooked me dinner, but there were people that came over while I cleaned up from him cooking. It was a normal, regular, and a just like every other kind of day. This year I would like to surprise my boyfriend with a lovely lady for a threesome. Now, whether it happens on my birthday or not, it would be present enough to see his face while watching me and another lady start things off. There is only one thing that concerns me… he has unlimited access to everything we do online. He has access to this site, my email, our club site, another social swingers site, and if he wants to ever see my phone to look through messages then he can do that too. So, I am not even sure if I could surprise him. He is probably reading this as I type it, and my other posts on other sites. It would be great to have a lady want to be involved with just us. We have both had shit threesomes before and I would love to show him and experience a real one with him. And, I am sure he will mention these sometime today to me. I am trying to be a bit more outgoing at the club, but I feel like I am invading space. It is as if I don’t know how to talk to them, as if I am a guy trying to spit lines and game and going nowhere. Oh well, at least I will keep trying.

Let’s pull an all-nighter!

Okay, so my boyfriend asked if we could attend the club tomorrow night… he has to open his store on Sunday. That puts him getting up around 4:30ish 5ish am on Sunday morning. Sometimes we do not get home until after 1 in the morning. There have been times when we didn’t get home until around 4 because the club closes at 3. So, my boyfriend wants to go to the club and then go straight to work. Yes, he is a bit crazy! I don’t know how he does it, but I would not be able to function correctly. I would be so tired and possibly fall asleep at work if that were me. Fine, if he wants to and stay awake all night and day then we will go. Tomorrow is glow stick night. The bands we would wear have different meanings…. Orange is for couples, Pink is for single females (or at least they are tonight), and Blue is for single males (or at least they are tonight). That may help out a bit if we are looking for a single female to talk to… We need to make it a good one because the kids come back on Sunday. I have missed them, but with how fast my days have been going by it just seems as if they just left. Anyway, back on track! I want a female, whether she is with a man or not… that does not mean that me and my boyfriend can not make her cum still. We could work with a couple and have a foursome, if the chick was willing to participate with me more. We could even have 3 pleasuring 1, but either way nobody should ever be left out. Especially when each person has either a dick or pussy, hands, and a mouth…. nobody should go without pleasure.

Into the swing of things…

Next weekend me and my sexy boyfriend are planning on going back to the club. In the past week we have come to an agreement and discussed what are our limitations for the club. We have come to a few agreements, and they are:

we would involve others during sex, such as another woman, a couple, or man… we would have a threesome or a foursome

we would swap, but only in the same room

we would let others watch us, as well as we would watch others

we would play with toys… have others play with toys

masturbate in front of eachother or have others watch us

film or photograph us

exploit the glory hole room

use things to tie eachother down

light bdsm

have sex anywhere

limited kissing with others, because it is more emotional

AND anything we do is for our pleasure and our relationship…

So, I believe we have basically agreed to the swinger lifestyle. I would do anything and everything with and for him. I will also say that I think this could only bring us closer and make our relationship even more amazing.