Forgetting again

Yes, I know I have more than a few posts to upload. I have to finish them. I am getting behind on my writing. We have had a few “bad” things happen this week… we can make it through these things, but they were very upsetting. I may fill you in later.

Anyway, I am sending out good vibes and warm wishes to you all!

I may post pictures!

So, I am pleased to announce the my boyfriend has finally gotten his raise. Then, in a little over a week he starts his new position with the company with an even larger rate of pay.

With this check he has already purchased our Halloween costumes! He is going as the mad hatter and I am going as harley quinn. I am superĀ  excited. Our outfits compliment the other so very well. Also, I have some fake nails that I sharpened into points that I will paint and be wearing. We will be wearing these costumes tomorrow night at the club. I actually think my butt looks acceptable and hott in the costume. I think we are going to have a good night!

On top of that stuff, we may have a couple to possibly play with. Or either I may have a chick to play with! She is cute and seems nice. They engaged us, so I guess we will see where things go! Maybe I could run those nails up the chicks back!

Also, my boyfriend and I are coming up on our 2 year anniversary! That and divorces from exes may be under way… so, maybe some time next year we could marry!

Life is unpredictable, but it sure is fun and exciting when you have the right partner. I am the luckiest lady to have found my boyfriend.

We also bought a couple pumpkins to carve with our kids. I get so excited when it comes to taking the kids trick or treating. I enjoy seeing how much fu n they have! They enjoy it so much, almost as much as we, their parents, do. Hopefully we can arrange for all 5 kids to be with us going around!

P.S. Someone remind me to post some pics fron this weekend.

2 things I will tell you.

1) I’ve never understood why people complain about hanging out or being around someone, after they hang out with them, if you don’t want to be around somebody then don’t be around them. I mean, if you don’t like their attitude, mood, or whatever they do then say so and don’t bitch about it later. Like with me, I don’t make anyone be around me, ever. If you don’t like me then seriously just say so. Why do people worry about what other people think of them? Be yourself and if they don’t like you then screw them. I am lucky enough to have found someone who loves me for me, and that is the greatest thing I could have ever asked for.

2) I have never had anyone stand up for me or my son. So, after a while I just gave up on thinking that anybody ever would. Never having anybody to back me or say anything on my behalf, I became, what I call, a realist. Being a realist I have always been prepared for the worst, not expecting it, just always have a guard up. Life is crazy and some of the most unexpected things happen so you should always be prepared for anything that may come your way. I wasn’t looking for anyone when I found my boyfriend, he is the love of my life and it was frickin crazy how we came to be. Always be prepared, but don’t be afraid to take chances either.